Boundaries are allowed.

Clear, calm language for teaching boundaries—designed for use in homes, youth groups, churches, schools, and other child-serving environments.

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Formation resources that support safeguarding culture. Not a replacement for legal requirements or institutional policy.

Three companion books

Things Boundaries Are Allowed to Do

A framework for adults who lead, teach, and care for others.
Things Boundaries Are Allowed to Do for Youth Groups

Designed for teens, volunteers, youth pastors, and senior leadership to read together.
Things Boundaries Are Allowed to Do for Kids

Simple, age-appropriate statements with space to draw and color.

For Churches

Implementation guidance for pastors, boards, children’s ministry leaders, and volunteers.

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For Schools

Practical alignment with safeguarding culture, visibility, and adult responsibility.

Safeguarding & legal alignment

For Families

Simple language that supports confident kids and calm, consistent adults.

Parent guide

What you’ll find on this site

Implementation guides

Suggested rollout plans, training sessions, and discussion prompts.

Safeguarding alignment

How the materials support duty of care, reporting culture, and prevention.

Facilitation tips

How to read with kids without fear-based framing or forced disclosure.

FAQ for reviewers

Clear answers for boards, parents, educators, and institutions.

Quick links

The Books For Churches For Parents Safeguarding & Legal FAQ

If you’re reviewing these materials for an institution, start with For Churches and Safeguarding & Legal.

Start with the books

Three companion titles: one for adults who lead and protect, one for youth groups to build shared expectations, and one for kids with simple statements and space to draw and color while a trusted adult guides the conversation.

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